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xxlr8
09-26-2005, 07:59 PM
“WE WILL BE RIDING ALONE TODAY”



Several weeks ago my wife, a friend and myself were going on a ride. I was leading. The ride was going well and we had ridden maybe 50 or 60 miles. We stopped on top of Sugarloaf Mountain (north of Clermont) for a break. There were maybe 5 or 6 bikes and riders there. We talked, joked and hung out for a little while.

A guy from across the road came over to us and started talking. He was friendly and seemed knowledgeable about bikes. He told us he was on a 2006 Harley and that he rents them all the time because he travels so much and he likes to ride. He rented them in Vegas, New York, California, all over. He talked about how his favorite bike was the V-Rod because he liked the horsepower. He said he knew it didn’t have the horsepower our bikes did but he liked Harleys. I’m thinking, that’s cool, I like anyone who rides and here was a Harley rider that actually knew his bike wasn’t the fastest. To me, that’s cool because I like Harley Road Kings, for what they are.

He asked where we were going. I told him around to the other side of the lake, that there were some good roads over there. He asked if he could ride along. This was the key point. I said, “Sure, that’s fine.” We got suited up and ready to go. Before we saddled up, he came over to me and said, “if we get separated, don’t worry about me, I’ll go my own way.” We started riding and the roads were fairly decent through the first part and we were running about 75 to 80. I was watching my mirrors, the group was close and all was well. We went through a little town all the bicycles go to (some of you reading this will know it, others won’t, it doesn’t matter). Again, a check in the mirror and all was well.

Then, we were closing in on a place where it gets a little tight, nothing difficult for a street racer or a typical sportbike rider, for that matter. I know the road, another key point, he didn’t know the road and I knew that. When I ride, I think everyone rides their own bike and it’s not my responsibility for what they do. As what happened continues to grow on me, I’m thinking about this differently.

The turn is an uphill left. At the top, you continue to turn left, then start downhill, still turning left and then it continues into a decreasing radius, left with a small right at the bottom; maybe 40 in a car, 70 on a bike. I knew the turn, as it had almost bitten me several times. We made it through and went on to the gas station across the intersection. We pulled in and parked the bikes. When I got off, I realized the Harley rider wasn’t with us. I asked my wife and the other rider where he was and they didn’t know. At that point, I turned around and looked up at that turn and I could see cars stopping. I knew what had happened (yes, riders reading this know that sickness you feel). I told my riding partners I was going back.

I arrived on the scene and he was lying in the road, maybe 70 feet from the bike, face down, arms under him, feet together. Several cars had stopped and when I pulled up next to him, he was alone; no one had gone over to him. I thought he was dead, and then when I got closer, I could see he was breathing but not conscious. Shortly thereafter, an ambulance, fire trucks, and police cars arrived, typical accident scene. He was alive and they were starting IVs, cutting off his clothes and trying to help him. They airlifted him to the closest trauma center. All was well and we went home thinking he was ok after the officer called and reported back that he was stable.

A week later, I got a phone call and it was the man’s daughter. I was thinking, she had gotten my name from the police report and they (the family) were going after the Harley rental place, but that wasn’t the case. She was very polite. She then informed me that he had passed away as a result of the accident. She asked if I knew, but I didn’t. He was a colonel in the Green Beret, a decorated Vietnam War hero, owner of his own oil company, a father, a husband, gone.

Every day since then, I have thought about the accident.

What could I have done? Slowed down for that turn? No. Yes. Told him there were some bad turns in the road? No. Yes.

I don’t know what I could have done differently. I just know the world is short one motorcycle rider, one father, one husband, one human being.


Choose carefully who you ride with.

Decide when to say, “No, we choose to ride by ourselves.”

xxlr8
09-26-2005, 08:01 PM
Dave,

Delete it if you want to. I felt it needed to be "heard".

TJ

mike
09-27-2005, 12:26 AM
Dave, I think you should leave it up. It's an important message.
TJ, I'm sure your not looking for any comments but here's my two cents. You shouldn't beat yourself up over this. I know I can't begin to imagine how you feel, but everyone that rides should know the risks before they ever turn the key. You can't blame yourself for something that you have absolutely no control over. You didn't turn his key or twist his throttle. I've never been on a ride with this group that I wasn't told to ride at my own pace and stay within my comfort level. I've read stories on here of great riders going down and stories of idiots riding well beyond their experience going down. You just never know and you have to be prepared for the worst and try for the best every time you get on your bike. I've thought about this story ever day since I read it and my thoughts are with you and his family to get through this.

Mike

xxlr8
09-27-2005, 08:23 PM
Mike,

Thanks for the response, it was really nice and true. I guess what I’m looking for more than anything is for people to realize that when you go for a ride it can change in a hurry. Know, and I stress, know who you are riding with. We would like to think that it won’t bother us if something happens to someone we don’t know. Man, we are all human beings and when you see one lying there with the life leaving them, it doesn’t matter if you know them or not. I know we can’t stop people from dying riding bikes; I’ve lost several good friends on bikes, myself. The point I want to get across is assess who you are with and enjoy your ride. It’s what we do.